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Blog: Organizing for Boomers
IT GETS MESSY IN THE MIDDLE
Are you one of those who postpone starting a project because
you are waiting for a 3-4 day (or week) in your life where your calendar is
clear to start something big?
Many of us are like that. Call it perfectionism-waiting
until the time is perfect or call it procrastination-if I wait long enough
something more fun, interesting or crisis-laden will come along.
I'm here to tell you we never get those GIANT blocks
of time just sitting there on our calendar saying absolutely nothing coming up
here in the next (4 x 24) 96 hours-not a thing. As the late Gilda Radner said
in her autobiographical story, There's Always Something.
We need to face that – embrace that- and then figure out
what to do about that.
If we've postponed a dreaded task for fear of the "messies"
we need to sit still and 1. visualize the project completed, 2. develop a plan
of action with specific key steps that will move us forward and 3. take
our planner/calendar and write in WHEN we will begin.
Blocking out chunks of time (probably not realistically four
full straight days) of when we will start – when we will continue (several
chunks) and our goal date of completion should energize us to get going sooner
rather than later.
Oh, you say, but it's going to get so messy before I finish.
And you know what? You are right! Think ER or Grey's Anatomy. How is it looking
for that horizontal patient in the middle of the heart transplant? Not a pretty
sight, unless, of course, you are a medical student or trained medical
professional. To those of us with our non-medical background it looks pretty
gooey, messy and downright scary at times.
So pick a project. Realize the middle of it will get messy,
just like those TV shows. But here's the important thing—stay the course, don't
give up; picture getting to the other side with everything put back together
again.
It worked for Humpty Dumpty. It continues to work for Dr.
Carter and Dr. Shepherd and their colleagues. Be not afraid.
Go forth and begin with a plan.
Let me know how you handled the mess in the middle and broke
through to the other side called completion. Write me of your successes and
challenges at boomer@theredteam.com.
Until then…
Making Your Space a Special Place
Sue
posted on: 10/26/2008 4:53:47 PM by Sue Crum category: Special Populations
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